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My Beauty Parlour in the 50's

by Ruthe

My Beauty Parlour in the 50's By Ruthe My first beauty parlour started in my kitchen many years ago, where I gave permanent waves off my kitchen table. So many of my friends and relatives were always wanting their hair done, and since I held a State Beauty License I could work professionally. I began charging a small fee for my hair dressing services. All were thrilled to get this service, and they knew the price was right. That's when "my beauty parlour" first began. My kitchen customers, and neighbors, soon got the word out to others. A successful business and career, plus 5 million pin curls, were made during the many years to come.

My husband and I wanted to move into a bigger house. Our children was almost school age, so we started looking for a certain location near a good school, and walking distance from where we would be living. We found a nice vacant lot in a beautiful neighborhood, near a grade school that we both had attended. Our plans for building a new home were about to begin. We both wanted my father, who was a contractor, to build it for us. He was getting up in age and I was afraid he wouldn't want to do it, but he agreed and the blue prints were started. How happy we were to be able to get our loan and a new house to soon be our home.

When I look back and see what I did in those days I almost can't believe it. In 1950 my father built us this beautiful little home. He taught me and my husband many things to do to help build our home, which saved quite a bit of money for us, and also helped him while he did his daily carpenter work. We lived in a rental house that was not desirable, and we wanted desperately to get our new home built before school started. I tried to work on our new house as much as possible. Our children were quite young, and I would have to take them with me, using a cab to get us there. It was quite an experience -- me building a house -- almost unbelievable. Of course the work I could do had to be done inside -- lathing, insulation, window painting, buffing floors, etc. Things were coming along quite nicely until an early winter set in with an unbelievable 3 month freeze. We had much of the inside finished, but the furnace had not been installed, therefore keeping all the workers from finishing their jobs, like plastering, electrical, plumbing etc.

School started, but our son had to miss the first semester. The winter freeze lasted until March -- the house was completed quickly after the furnace was in. We moved in though many little finishing touches had to be done but soon we had most of it done. It was beginning to look so nice, our very first home to ever own, and to think we helped so much toward building it. My father was an excellent teacher, and I will never forget how much he taught us about how to build a house -- plus it gave us a good self esteem and feeling of accomplishment.

Two years later our little daughter was entering school, and this gave me plenty of time on my hands. I decided to put some beauty equipment in our basement and start my beauty parlour. I kept most of my kitchen customers, and their friends. I decided to work only 3 days a week, with no night work, but after a few months I found myself working day and night to satisfy my steady customers. I needed more space, plus new equipment, and a housekeeper. My father, and his carpenter partner, enlarged my work space. New equipment was purchased, and I found an excellent housekeeper to keep our house clean.

My beauty parlour was a pleasure -- pleasing my wonderful clientele was most rewarding to me and to be able to earn a nice salary was quite an achievement. It helped us afford our household expenses, plus those extras that we couldn't have had on my husbands salary alone. He had a nice position with a big company, but it consisted of a large traveling territory and he was home only on weekends.

A few years had gone by, and our 16 year marriage was breaking up. His traveling, and my long working hours were not a good recipe to hold a marriage together. My beauty parlour was my Godsend. I hired another stylist to assist, and take over as many of my customers as possible. This was a must for me with so much paperwork, and incidentals with running a prosperous business--plus, maintaining our home. I kept the business going several years, and was doing very well financially. Both the children were older, and leaving their nest to start their lives in the big business world. They both were educated well, and beginning their professions. Our little family of three was all going into different directions. I was still a young woman, but burned out as a beautician when an offer came to me. I couldn't turn it down--it was a traveling position with an international hair cosmetic company. I closed my beauty parlour after 18 years and moved to Dallas to become a District Supervisor for the company. I did extensive travel, covering 7 states, supervising and teaching 15 young women to become hair color technicians. I became successful at my new profession and loved my new life. In a short time I became the #1 District Supervisor in Sales for the whole United States, quite an honor plus a generous bonus. I stayed with this company for 8 years. Too much travel forced my resignation, but the most deciding factor for me to leave this job was a plane crash after coming in from a hard day of work. The passengers all escaped injury but the shock took its toll on me. I was almost a senior, and this glamorous position is for a younger person. I must concede to getting older, my time has been served, and I must move on.

My replacement wasn't as lucky as I. She was a beautiful young woman, very well qualified and was with the company only 6 weeks when she was brutally murdered in a hotel room. How sad to lose a great person at such a young age. She was so happy to fill my shoes, and she would have been a wonderful, dedicated representative making me proud that I recommended her. A tremendous loss not only to our company but to her loving family. I will never forget her.

I do often think of my beauty parlour though, and wonder about my beautiful customers that I made more beautiful, and how great it made me feel always to see their eyes light up after they would look at their new coiffures in the mirror, and the smile on their faces that have stayed with me to this very day. As I finish my story here I must disclose a deep secret -- this little salon never had a name nor was it ever advertised until now. It operated on its own merits, and served many women of all ages. Throughout these years it has brought joy, laughs, and a few tears to me, and my great customers. It was hard to close those doors, but it left me with wonderful memories for my golden years.

My father, my new house, my beauty parlour, my successful position, and most of all my great kids have proven to me that life is certainly worth living, and where there is a will there is a way. May God be with each, and every one of you, as He has been with me. I'm a very grateful person for all the blessings that have been bestowed to me and the tremendous success of operating "my beauty parlour" 50 years ago.

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